Having been married for nearly 22 years (wait, that makes me sound way too old) or the entire life span of an average college graduate (ugh, never mind) I feel it safe to say that one of the reasons our relationship works is that my husband Garth (not his real name) and I are total opposites.
One of us is emotional and the other more of an intellectual. Guess which one? Go ahead, I'll wait.
If you guessed me as the emotional one, CONGRATULATIONS!!!
You are ABSOLUTELY right in thinking I am less apt to intellectualize feelings and most likely bringing attention to myself (right now, even) showing off my non-verbal communications skillz...in public.
In other words, I'm probably hugging someone...who does NOT like, let alone even wish to be...you know...hugged...right now.
Sorry. I just canNOT help myself. It's in my genes. In fact, I'm raising a houseful of emotional empaths, we're ALL verklempt up in here.
"You want to come into the school's office with me?"
My oldest girl is graduating high school and my youngest is graduating elementary school this week.
[hand to heart]
Aaaaand, I'm trying really, really hard not to be all...you know...verklempt.
"Maybe you'll see some of your old teachers."
My two oldest girls were home from school (I forget why, although it doesn't really matter, considering these days it's a chore for me to remember their names, moving on) and we (okay, mostly me) thought it would be fun to see if they...you know...remember how much fun...school used to be.
"Look, there's your music teacher, Mrs. B!"
We've gone through many, many teachers in the 13 years my kids have attended this school (at least 13, please don't ask me to name them all) however, Mrs. B is definitely a favorite.
"Are you guys still in high school?"
My middle girl pointed to her oldest sister.
"I am, but she's graduating!"
[eyes go wide]
"Now I feel REALLY old!"
I just stood there, nodding my head, not so much because I couldn't think of anything to say (I know, act surprised anyway, okay?) however, teenagers embarrass rather easily (see previous parenthesis) and, well, they're probably already annoyed with me (right now, even) so, I turned my attention to the office staff.
"I wanted to thank you ladies for all of your..."
"...for all of your...
"...support over the years."
"Seeing as it's our last year at this school and everything."
[fans face with hands]
"Thank you...[cough]...all...[choke]...for all that...[clears throat]...you do."
This time, it was Mrs. B's turn to put her hand to her heart.
"Your getting ME all verklempt!"
And so it goes. I do that to intellectuals.
"Want to watch a movie together, like we used to when you were little?"
My oldest was exempt from all but one of her finals this week (yes, I know, she does NOT get it from me) so, she offered to help sit with my youngest (she's home sick from school, it's how we roll) and then came running back into the kitchen.
[places hand on heart]
"She...[cough]...picked...[choke]...a Barbie...[clears throat]...movie!!!"
Funny, I always thought her more of an intellectual, she MUST get that part from her father.
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