4 years ago, I watched my oldest daughter leave the house as a freshman in high school and I still remember thinking to myself...PHEW!...1 down and 3 to go!
I also remember being told (by other parents) that when my children hit kindergarten (i.e. started school full-time, not like in a smack it with a hammer sort of way) or reached the maximum 48 inches to ride alone (or whichever came first) that my job (as a parent) was DONE!
To date, I don't believe I have heard a less true statement.
Holly and Heather - Christmas 2012
In fact, now that my oldest turned 18 (that's a whole other adult, people!) and then the middle girl went and turned 16 (SOB!) I still can't help but wonder, "How in the heck DID we get here?"
Glen's 1st trip to the boardwalk!
I was once able to remember special occasions by referring to each of my pregnancies as a timeline: "Yes, I remember Grandma sold her house in 1998 - because, I was pregnant with Glen at the time."
Celebrating Glen's 13th Birthday, this past weekend (fyi: he's as tall as I am. I'm 5' 9". Enough said.)
Now that my kids are older (and heavier) I'm learning to focus on celebrating each moment...of every day...as if it were a special occasion.
The Voodoo Tree on Higbees Beach in Cape May, NJ on New Year's Eve 2011
Of course, it most likely will not be the one that my kids remember (like, that one year I "almost" forgot my son's birthday) but, let's NOT go there...just yet...m'kay?!?
How about you? How do you remember your family's special moments? Ever forget your kid's birthday? It's okay, I won't tell them.
Oh, and in case you missed it: more of our LIASO moments.
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