My husband Garth (not his real name) surprised me for our 20th Wedding Anniversary last summer by taking off of work to spend more time with the kids and me (yes, ME!) doing absolutely nothing of REAL importance, which truly is a MONUMENTAL act of love, on his part.
Trust me, I know!!!
Aaaaand, I think it would be prudent to admit to you now: I have absolutely NO idea how we (okay, mostly he) made it, this far!
Enjoying a gray and cloudy day at the bay.
There are times when we just can't seem to agree with each other (okay, more often than not) on anything.
Then again, after all these years (not to mention, raising this many kids) we've also learned to choose our battles, arriving to an unspoken compromise instead (i.e. no politics at the dinner table or when sharp objects are nearby!) and most especially, when it comes to raising our teens.
Hiking the red trail (PHEW!) at Bushkill Falls, PA
We BOTH have made A LOT of mistakes and the repercussions of some really bad decisions seem to haunt us, repeatedly (DAMMIT!) as we continue to swim through a torrent of disorganization at the risk of drowning in our own mental atrophy.
Then again, we are from Jersey: better to swim with the current and parallel to the shore rather than fight against a rip tide...YO!
Surprisingly enough, our kids seem okay and don't mind being seen out with us in public (yes, on purpose and without being bribed) even.
Parenting teens is hard. Being "the parent" is even harder and there just aren't enough words to describe how much I cherish every hour we get to share in each other's company. Enjoying quiet moments like these, so close to home, speaks volumes.
/Staycation 2010
In fact, the kids often times revisit this particular staycation in conversation (me, too!) referring to it as the best 3 days they've ever spent...together...and that, my friends, is the most pleasant suprise of all.
Aaaand, I didn't even have to pack any clean underwear or anything...go figure...right?!?
Oh, and in case you missed it: more of our LIASO moments.
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