I've been busily training for a couple of new jobs (a much needed and very appreciated couple of new jobs!) so my youngest daughter was kind enough to offer her services and guest blog for me, this week.
Aaaaand, since I've already failed (miserably!) at posting every day for #NaBloPoMo, I took the kid up on her offer and told her to have at it :)
So, she came up with this, unedited and totally in her words:
Hey hi hey…most of you know me as the youngest person in the thisfullhouse family. If you don’t know me then I’m Hope. I’m turning 13 in two months. If you’re a parent and you have a teen or many teens like the mom of thisfullhouse here are some tips and tricks to make you and your teen's life a lot easier.
Remember these are all totally true facts coming from a teen sooooo yeah.
1. Make sure they have a book to read or get into…I went a couple years thinking I hated books and here I am having 82 books/series I want to read. This is NOT an exaggeration.
2. Make sure you have lots of tea and coffee in your house. If your teen is upset about something tea is the best thing. One of the best things my sister makes me is chai hot chocolate. You make chai tea and mix in a little hot chocolate for a new world to be open in front of your very own eyes.
3. Let them listen to what ever music they want and let them dress how they want. It doesn’t matter what they dress like or listen to, but if they start to dress a little too badinkadinky let them face the consequences.
4. Let them learn from their mistakes. It’s the best way for them to figure out what they’re doing wrong, and fix it themselves. It will also show you just how responsible we teens can be. So it’s practically a win-win situation going on.
5. On those nights where you just want to be alone with that special someone ;) schedule a sleepover at your teen’s friend’s house. The two friends can have fun together and you can be with that special person of yours ;) Remember at the friend’s house. If your house you will be bothered for tis and that here and there and be bombarded with millions of questions. And remember I am a professional.
6. Have a certain day to hang out with them just you and your teen. Make a movie night at your house, or go out for coffee, or go on a walk, a jog, a run, whatever you want.
7. Whenever your teen says ‘whatever’ or ‘I don’t care’ just know that they really do care and they are just trying to cover it up or hide it from you to act “cooler”. This especially happens around friends; don’t worry it happens to every parent you’re not doing anything wrong.
8. Lastly, GIVE THEM SPACE. If they are having a problem or trouble with something, no matter what it be, GIVE THEM SPACE.
Try these tips and see for yourself. Good luck!
Yep, the kid is WAY smarter than me. The only thing I would add: yes, you should also totally consider yourselves lucky...if and whenever your teen allows you to take a picture of the back of their head...YO!!!
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